Sunday 16 December 2007

The decline of friendship and the rise of 'acquaintanceship'

Whatever Friendship might be, its postmodern replacement, 'Acquaintanceship', is mutual pleasure-seeking. The bonds of affection go no further than this. Friendship, of course, doesn't even base itself on mutual agreement. Where friends compromise with one another, acquaintances are based on agreement on the most superficial things (favourite film, songs, beer, clothing label, etc) because mutual acquaintanceship would be compromised and doubtless dissolved if core values (spiritual, political, ideological) were ever discussed. The advantage in this is that it frees people from the obligations of friendship. The disadvantage is that it frees people from the responsibilities of friendship.

2 comments:

Tuomas said...

Man, your posts are mildly depressing, although of course you pick on important issues. Anyway, I'm still trying to be an optimist of some sort!

Burning Pyre said...

I'm just a realist. I like to observe things and extract the essences or mechanics of their workings - you know the kind of thing I mean! I'll post some funny stuff.